Sex Term Glossary

The emotional and physical check-in after sex or BDSM play, often involving cuddling, reassurance, or snacks to help both partners come down gently. Think: the dessert after the main course.

A kink where participants roleplay as different ages (e.g., one as a 'caregiver' and the other as 'younger'). It’s about fantasy, not actual minors.

A string of connected spheres designed for anal play, often pulled out slowly for extra sensation. Like a beaded necklace, but for very private events.

Penetration of the anus with a penis, toy, or finger. Can be pleasurable with the right prep and lube - the key is relaxation and communication.

Using the mouth and tongue to stimulate the anus. Equal parts daring and intimate.

A sexual orientation where someone experiences little or no sexual attraction. Doesn’t mean they can’t enjoy intimacy or relationships though.

Restricting oxygen to enhance sexual arousal. Dangerous and can be fatal - safety here isn’t optional, it’s essential!

Being more sexually attracted to oneself than to others. Think: self-love, but on another level.

Arousal caused by statues, mannequins or other human-like objects.

Arousal caused by trees, often because of their phallic shape or texture.

Arousal caused by spiders. Often the sensation of them crawling on the body, and / or nibbling at the body.

An umbrella term for bondage, discipline/dominance, submission/sadism, and masochism. A big menu of consensual power play.

In gay culture, a larger, often hairier man with a rugged look. The cuddly nickname is misleading as they can be just as sweet as they are burly.

Slang for someone who dates a person of the opposite sex to hide their own sexual orientation. Considered dismissive today.

When a long-term couple’s sex life slows down or stops entirely. Often more about communication than chemistry.

Small weighted balls inserted vaginally to strengthen pelvic floor muscles or for sexual stimulation. Gym for your pelvic muscles, but more fun.

Someone exploring or open to attraction to more than one gender, but not yet identifying as bisexual.

Being attracted to more than one gender. Attraction here is about who sparks your interest, not a fixed 50/50 split.

Oral stimulation of the penis. The term is misleading for those of you who are innocent - there is no actual blowing required.

Restricting a partner's movement using ropes, cuffs, or other restraints, often as part of BDSM play. Can range from silky scarves to serious shibari.

A casual arrangement for sex, usually late at night and without romantic expectations.

In sexual slang, someone who prefers a receptive role during sex, particularly in anal or oral play. In BDSM, refers to the more submissive partner.

Erotic play involving controlled breathing restriction. Carries serious risks - education and trust are crucial.

Slang for heterosexual people, often used dismissively within queer communities.

A group sex act where several people ejaculate on one person, usually a planned porn scenario. Messy, and very much a niche taste.

A toy designed for comfortable anal insertion, often with a flared base to prevent disappearing acts.

A highly sensitive organ above the vaginal opening with thousands of nerve endings - the true MVP of many orgasms.

A dominant partner controls when, how and where the submissive can urinate (wee) or defecate (poo).

Inflating, or pretending to inflate, a part of the body for arousal / sexual gratification reasons.

Marking someone's body, often with a symbol or word. It's often a hot piece of metal that is used to create the brand.

Arousal caused by thunderstorms.

Kink involving pain or intense sensation to the penis and testicles. Ranges from light taps to heavy pressure - definitely not for beginners.

Sexual denial by locking genitals in a device to prevent touch or stimulation, often tied to power exchange dynamics.

Engaging in romantic or sexual activity outside an agreed-upon relationship boundary, often behind a partner's back. The drama isn’t about the act, but the broken trust.

Applying pressure to the neck during sex. Dangerous without knowledge and consent - many safer alternatives exist.

Slang for when female–on-female sex is interrupted or blocked. The sapphic version of a cock block.

The peak of sexual pleasure, often accompanied by orgasm. Sometimes the fireworks, sometimes just a gentle glow.

A device that uses suction to temporarily enlarge the clitoris, increasing sensitivity.

A highly sensitive organ above the vaginal opening with thousands of nerve endings - the true MVP of many orgasms.

The protective fold of skin covering the clitoris. Like a little hoodie for your pleasure center.

Roleplay that mimics non-consensual scenarios but is agreed on in advance with clear boundaries.

A ring worn around the base of the penis (and sometimes testicles) to help maintain erections and delay orgasm. Electronic / vibrating versions exist too!

Erotic play centered around praising, touching, or otherwise adoring the penis.

In BDSM, a symbol of commitment between dominant and submissive partners (like a kinky wedding ring) worn around the neck.

Sharing your sexual orientation or gender identity with others. A process, not a one-time event.

A barrier method of contraception and STI protection, worn on the penis or inside the vagina/anus. Available in latex, polyurethane, and even lambskin (though the latter doesn’t block STIs).

The enthusiastic, informed, and ongoing agreement to engage in sexual activity. The sexiest word in the dictionary!

Someone who gets aroused by their partner having sex with others, often as part of an agreed kink dynamic.

Slang for liquid excreted during an orgasm, or a slang term for the act of orgasm itself (to cum).

Arousal caused by crevices, caverns, or valleys.

Arousal or even orgasm due to being confined to small spaces.

Arousal caused by legs or specific parts of the leg such as the thigh, the ankle, the knee, etc.

Small cups or jars are applied upside down on the body, using suction to create bruising.

Similarly to a penis pump, a clit pump is a cup-like device that is applied over the labia and creates a vacuum to force more blood into the labia and clitoris, making it more sensitive.

A kink involving arousal from tears or crying, often paired with emotional vulnerability. Can be tender or intense depending on context.

In kink, a nurturing yet dominant partner. In dating slang, an older man (or anyone with 'provider' energy) in a relationship with a younger partner.

Taking a penis fully into the mouth and throat. Often a porn fantasy, but requires relaxation and practice to avoid discomfort, gagging, or vomiting.

Someone who only experiences sexual attraction after forming a strong emotional bond. Think slow-burn romance with extra spice once trust is there.

Using suggestive, commanding, or descriptive language to arouse a partner. No soap required!

A sexual position where one partner is behind the other, allowing deeper penetration. Popular for both vaginal and anal sex.

In BDSM, the person taking the controlling or leading role during a scene or relationship.

Penetration of two orifices at once, or two penetrations in the same orifice, usually involving toys, fingers, or multiple partners.

Sexual stimulation through rubbing against a partner while clothed or partially clothed. Friction without penetration.

Arousal caused by tears or crying, of oneself or a partner.

Arousal caused by dragons.

Slang for an attractive father, stands for Dad I'd Like to Fuck.

Sexual activities that carry a higher level of risk, physically or psychologically (e.g., knife play, breath play). Requires trust, negotiation, and skill.

Bringing oneself or a partner close to orgasm, then stopping to extend arousal. Like edging your lawn, but way more fun.

The release of semen from the penis. Can also refer to female ejaculation when fluid is expelled from the urethra.

Parts of the body that respond strongly to sexual touch. From obvious spots like genitals to surprise zones like behind the knees.

Any relationship style where partners openly agree to have sexual or romantic connections with others.

Sexual arousal from being seen by others naked or engaging in sexual acts. Often consensual but can be illegal without an audience’s consent.

Arousal caused by stretchy materials such as spandex, latex, or silicone. Often enjoyment derives from sinking into the material or bounding on them.

Arousal caused by farting, often the smell or the sound.

One partner sits on the other’s face for oral sex. Gives 'taking a seat' a whole new meaning.

Ejaculating onto someone’s face, often as a porn trope or negotiated act in sexual play.

A specific sexual focus on a particular object, body part, or scenario that is central and necessary to arousal. A kink, on the other hand, is not necessary for arousal.

Penetrating a partner with fingers, usually vaginally or anally.

Inserting the entire hand into the vagina or anus, not always in the shape of a fist (sometimes a more streamlined pointed fingers together is easier and more pleasurable). Requires careful prep, relaxation, and lots (and lots) of lube.

In porn, a person whose role is to keep performers aroused between takes. Outside porn, can be used as a joke or insult.

Choosing to have sex without barrier protection as a sign of trust or intimacy, often in committed relationships.

Sexual touching, kissing, or stimulation before intercourse or main activity as means of a 'warm-up'. Can be more satisfying than the main event for many people.

Rubbing two penises together for sexual pleasure. Also used more broadly to mean genital rubbing through clothes.

Sexual or romantic play involving costumes or personas of anthropomorphic animals. 'Furry' is the noun, i.e. 'They are a Furry'.

Arousal caused by insects. Often the sensation of them crawling on the body, and / or nibbling at the body.

An area a couple of inches inside the vagina on the front wall, believed to be highly sensitive for some people. Controversial in anatomy circles, but popular in bedrooms, and capable of giving a powerful orgasm.

A gender identity that shifts over time between different expressions or identities.

An umbrella term for gender identities outside the binary of male and female.

Erotic focus on admiring, kissing, and pleasuring the genitals.

A hole in a wall or partition, often in adult venues, used for anonymous sexual contact where the genitals are presented through that hole for others to take advantage of.

Sexual play involving urination on a partner.

Sexual touching, which can be consensual or non-consensual. Without consent, this is sexual assault.

Sexual activity involving more than two participants.

Sexual activity where one person is penetrated by multiple partners, one after another or simultaneously.

Slang for oral sex given by someone without teeth, often used mockingly.

Using the hand to stimulate the penis. Though recently people use the terms jerking off and wanking to include masturbation for vagina-owners too.

In BDSM, an absolute boundary a person will not cross. Non-negotiable and respected at all times.

Straps or gear used for wearing sex toys, such as a strap-on dildo, or for restraint in BDSM.

Japanese erotic art or animation, often stylised and fantastical.

A bruise-like mark caused by sucking or biting the skin during sexual play.

A large, powerful vibrator originally marketed as a muscle massager - now a cult classic in the bedroom.

A married woman who has sexual partners outside her marriage with her husband’s consent, often part of a cuckold dynamic.

In BDSM, a submissive who does domestic tasks; outside kink, historically linked to colonial servitude and exploitation.

Arousal caused by blood and / or bleeding.

Giving your partner a hall pass means to allow them to sleep with somebody else without it being considered cheating. Sometimes, people will ask for the hall pass to be for a pre-determined person.

BDSM activity involving striking the body for sensation and/or eroticism, such as spanking, caning, and whipping.

Roleplay where an adult takes on the persona of a baby or young child (non-sexual for some, erotic for others). Not related to real minors.

The act of placing a toy, finger, or other object into a body orifice.

Placing the penis between a partner’s thighs and thrusting (or being thrusted against) for stimulation.

Someone born with physical sex characteristics that don’t fit typical definitions of male or female bodies.

Physical, emotional, or sexual abuse within a romantic or sexual relationship.

Slang for stimulating oneself to orgasm.

An intricate style of rope bondage, often artistic as well as erotic.

Slang for female masturbation.

An athletic undergarment that supports the genitals; often fetishised in queer and kink communities.

Slang for a sexually active man, especially in gay culture, sometimes implying masculine dominance.

A kink involving verbal or video guidance on how to masturbate.

An ancient Indian text with guidance on love, relationships, and a wide variety of sexual positions.

Repeatedly contracting and relaxing pelvic muscles to increase sexual sensation and control.

In chastity play, the person who holds the key to the device, controlling access to their partner’s genitals.

Any sexual interest, activity, or fantasy outside mainstream expectations that enhances sexual pleasure. Unlike a fetish, where the stimulus is necessary for arousal.

A roleplay fetish where one partner acts like a cat, often involving accessories and pet dynamics.

The male sexual genital body part.

Arousal caused by mirrors, sometimes seeing oneself in the mirror, or watching each other in the mirror.

Arousal caused by thunder and lightning.

Arousal caused by wearing anime masks, often men wearing masks depicting anime women.

The folds of skin around the vulva; can be inner (labia minora) or outer (labia majora).

A kink involving sexual arousal from wearing or touching latex clothing.

Using a leash during sexual play, often as part of dominance/submission dynamics.

A woman who is romantically or sexually attracted to other women.

A person’s overall sexual desire or 'how much they want sex'.

Sexy or decorative undergarments worn for visual and tactile appeal.

A life-sized doll designed for sexual use, sometimes highly realistic.

A substance used to reduce friction during sexual activity, making things smoother and safer.

Arousal caused by stones, rocks, pebbles, gravel, shingles, etc.

Arousal caused by bees and / or wasps. Often the sensation of them crawling on the body, and / or nibbling at the body.

Arousal caused by armpits, often including the smell. This can manifest as kissing, touching, licking, or inserting a penis into the armpit.

Arousal caused by machine, often wanting to have sex near, on, or in machines such as cars.

Arousal caused by dirtiness, often as a result of sex. For example, bodily juices on bedsheets or dirty underwear.

Arousal from extreme size differences (imagined or roleplayed). Usually fantasy-forward and power-dynamics adjacent.

Passionate kissing that can be a destination or a warm-up. Zero travel time, high payoff.

Rubbing the penis between the breasts for stimulation. Visual thrill meets soft, warm, loving embrace.

Deriving erotic pleasure from receiving pain or intense sensation, consensually and negotiated.

A textured sleeve used on the penis for solo play. Pocket-sized spa day.

Kink scenarios inspired by medical exams or procedures (roleplay, props, consensual dynamics). Strict consent and hygiene are the real uniforms.

Sexual activity among three people. Scheduling may be the hardest position.

Sex during menstruation. Messy for some, bliss for others - towels are the MVP.

In polyamory, your partner’s other partner. Not your rival; often your tea buddy.

Slang for an attractive mother, stands for Mom I'd Like to Fuck.

Partner on back with another on top facing them. Enduring for a reason: eye contact and easy access.

Partners with different sexual orientations navigating a shared relationship structure. Communication is the compass here.

Sexual and romantic exclusivity with one partner. Simple to define, complex to practice well.

Primarily monogamous couple with agreed exceptions. Training wheels for some, destination for others.

Time-sensitive contraception taken after sex to reduce pregnancy risk. Not an abortion pill; not for regular use.

All things lips, tongue, and teeth mixing with the genitals.

Older terminology for a trans woman, acronym for Male-to-Female.

Casual, non-sexual meetups for kinksters, usually at cafes/restaurants. Name-tag energy, not dungeon energy.

Advanced bondage involving wrapping the body (e.g., plastic, tape) to restrict movement. High trust, high safety protocols.

Partners pleasuring themselves together. Exhibition, education, and orgasms - efficient.

Arousal caused by noses.

Arousal caused by sucking / licking someone's nose.

To nail someone is to have sex with someone.

Non-sexual nudity as lifestyle or recreation. Sun on skin, not necessarily sin.

Pre-play conversation about boundaries, risks, and desires. The contract before the plot twist.

Using sterile needles for sensation and visual impact in advanced kink. Edge play: training and safety are non-negotiable.

Sexual attraction to corpses; abusive and criminal. Included only for completeness but flatly condemned.

The fizzy excitement at the start of a romance. Gorgeous - just don’t let it run your calendar.

Sensitive center on the chest that can respond to touch, suction, temperature, or vibration. Equal-opportunity pleasure button.

Devices that pinch nipples for stimulation, from gentle to intense. Add chains if you like drama.

Orgasm achieved through nipple stimulation alone. Bodies: endlessly surprising.

Gender identity outside the male/female binary. Not a phase; a valid, stable identity.

Any consensual structure beyond exclusivity. Umbrella includes swinging, polyamory, and more.

A movement promoting reduced/zero masturbation and porn. Some find clarity; others find pressure - your body, your call.

The art of balancing new-love sparkle with existing commitments. Polyamory’s favorite soft skill.

Without clothing. Sexual only if the context makes it so.

Slippery, full-contact massage using a gel or thick lube. Think human otters, but sexy.

Arousal caused by inanimate objects, such as shoes.

Arousal caused by eyes / seeing eyes.

Arousal caused by licking eyeballs.

Arousal caused by biting somebody, or being bitten. Sometimes involving blood.

Arousal caused by smells, often pungent ones or body odor.

Old term for masturbation.

Erotic focus on someone’s body/role as an object, negotiated and consented. Fantasy, not disrespect, when done right.

The involuntary facial expression during orgasm. Your selfie camera doesn’t need this one.

Old theories about attraction to a parent. Contemporary attachment/psych frameworks; not used to label desire.

Slippery touch for relaxation and arousal. Towels are the friendship bracelets of oil play.

Attraction to people of all genders, sometimes acknowledging gender nuances in attraction.

Sexual encounter without expectation of ongoing romance. Clear boundaries = fewer morning plot twists.

Delaying or preventing orgasm to intensify arousal. Delicious frustration by design.

A partnered sensual practice focused on mindful genital touch, sans goal orientation. Intimacy lab, not a race.

Sexual play among multiple people, typically with consent frameworks and safer sex agreements.

Sexual stimulation without penetration, often through clothing. Low risk, high sparks.

Continuing stimulation past peak sensitivity to intensify or flip sensations. Great for some, overwhelming for others.

A BDSM gag that holds the mouth open. Disclosure: drool is part of the vibe.

In gay slang, a leaner, often hairy man. The woodland cousin in the bear family.

A kink centered on bladder desperation and wetting. Very niche; consent and hygiene are key.

Arousal caused by feet. This often involves the feet looking a particular way, doing a particular thing, or being in a certain place.

Arousal caused by being tickled, often by feathers.

Arousal caused by breaking religious / biblical rules / sinning.

Arousal caused by being afraid or scared.

Having multiple love interests at the same time - beyond just sex, polyamory includes romance.

A suction device that goes over the penis and creates a vacuum, forcing more blood into the penis, making it slightly bigger and harder.

A walnut-sized gland inside the body that can produce intense orgasms when stimulated. Hidden treasure behind the perineum.

Consensual use of pain as erotic stimulus. Scales from stingy to thuddy - communicate and calibrate.

Attraction to people regardless of gender. Hearts first, gender details later.

Arousal from wearing, seeing, or using panties as part of play. Silky psychology.

Ejaculating sooner than desired. Common and manageable; pressure rarely helps, patience often does.

Ejaculating onto the chest/neck area. Classic porn phrase; real-life mileage varies.

Penetrative anal sex where a partner uses a strap-on dildo on a person with a penis. Role remix with smiles.

Inserting a body part or object into an orifice including penis in vagina (PIV), anal, and any other insertion really. Consent, lube, and pace make it friendly.

External genital organ involved in urination and sexual function. Range of shapes and sizes; all are normal.

The sensitive strip between genitals and anus. Press here for bonus points.

Roleplay where someone adopts an animal persona and dynamics. Collars, leashes, lots of cooing.

Slang for someone who prefers receiving pleasure more than giving. Can be playful; talk about reciprocity.

The interconnected map of partners and metamours. Think subway map, but with more kissing.

Attraction to multiple, but not all, genders. A sibling to bi and pan, with its own vibe.

Sexual media for arousal. Great servant, questionable teacher - porn literacy matters.

Porn or content shot from the performer’s perspective.

Agreed shift of control between partners (temporary or lifestyle). The secret sauce of many BDSM dynamics.

Arousal from compliments, approval, or being told you’re doing well.

Clear fluid that can appear from the penis during arousal. Can carry sperm/STIs - barriers still count.

Medication taken to prevent HIV. Highly effective when taken as prescribed.

Emergency HIV prevention meds taken soon after possible exposure. Time window is tight; act fast.

Genital piercing entering the urethra and exiting the underside of the glans. Jewellery that can change sensation (and underwear choices).

Kink focused on instinct, chasing, pinning, and growls - with consent as the invisible referee.

A paid practitioner offering BDSM services and scenes. Skills, boundaries, and businesslike consent.

Manual/toy stimulation of the prostate for pleasure or release. Lube and patience unlock the level.

Sexual activity in places others might see. Legal and consent risks are real - private venues are safer.

Removing the penis before ejaculation to reduce pregnancy risk. Better than nothing but definitely not as good as barriers or birth control.

Inhalants used by some for brief euphoria and muscle relaxation. Health/legal risks apply and never mix with erectile disfunction meds.

Common slang for external genitals. Loved by some, too crude for others, so use a vibe that fits.

Erotic focus on praising and pleasuring the vulva.

The sudden shift in priorities or perspective right after orgasm, often in the form of a realisation that you don't actually like the person you just had sex with.

Agreed rituals/behavior rules in power-exchange relationships.

The sound of air escaping the vagina during or after sex. Funny, normal, and usually harmless.

A reclaimed term for people outside heterosexual and cisgender norms. Empowering for many, but historically used as a slur.

A short, spontaneous sexual encounter. Often more about thrill than duration.

A niche kink involving arousal from imprisonment scenarios. Typically fantasy roleplay rather than literal jail time.

Sexual encounters linked with rave culture, often incorporating lights, music, and sometimes drugs.

Oral stimulation of the anus. Intimate, daring, and hygiene-conscious.

Taking on characters or scenarios during sex, from nurses to aliens.

Restricting movement with rope for aesthetics, sensation, or restraint. Knots can be art, but safety shears are key.

More vigorous, intense sexual activity (may include spanking, hair-pulling, dirty talk). Always pre-negotiated and consensual.

A kink for wearing or feeling rubber/latex clothing. Shiny, squeaky, and sweatier than it looks.

Orgasm cut short or sabotaged deliberately, often in tease-and-denial play.

A pre-agreed word/phrase used to pause or stop a scene in BDSM.

Deriving pleasure from giving pain to a consenting partner.

Attraction primarily to intelligence.

A kink involving feces. Very niche; carries serious health risks. Not for most.

Two vulvas rubbing together during sex. Popularized in media; real-life technique varies. Though, as a position, can be performed by partners of all genitalia.

Fluid containing sperm released from the penis during ejaculation.

A sex therapy exercise where partners focus on giving and receiving non-demanding touch.

Removing senses (sight, sound, etc.) to heighten others. Darkness makes touch louder ;)

A submissive who enjoys acts of service (cleaning, cooking, organizing) as part of kink.

A person’s level of interest in sexual activity. Often fluctuates with health, mood, life stage, and medication.

Belief that all types of sexual expression are healthy and valid.

Devices designed for sexual pleasure or exploration, such as dildos, vibrators, and plugs.

The idea that sexual orientation can change over time. Some find it liberating, others confusing, and both are valid.

A kink where embarrassment or degradation is arousing. Consent and aftercare essential!

Oral stimulation of the toes. From tender to ticklish, depending on the toes involved.

A kink where a submissive is dressed/treated in a feminized way.

Used as a derogatory term for sexually active women; now reclaimed in 'slut-shaming' discourse and movements like SlutWalk.

Passing semen from one mouth to another after oral sex. Definitely a niche taste (pun intended).

Activities someone might be hesitant about or willing to try under specific circumstances. Negotiable, unlike hard limits.

A swinger term which means engaging in sexual activities which aren't penetration with others.

Arousal from watching or touching someone asleep. Non-consensual if not negotiated; safest as fantasy roleplay only.

Striking the buttocks with a hand or implement for erotic sensation.

Slang for penetration at both ends (oral and anal/vaginal) simultaneously.

Expulsion of fluid from the urethra during orgasm or arousal. Not urine, though debates continue scientifically.

Removing a condom without consent during sex. Illegal and a violation of consent!!!

Couples engaging sexually with others, typically in organized settings.

A person who enjoys both dominant and submissive roles in kink or varying sexual positions.

powerful motorized sex machine designed for straddling.

Aroused by pulling hair or having one's hair pulled.

Arousal caused by massages - giving and / or receiving.

A practice focused on prolonged intimacy, mindfulness, and energy exchange. More about connection than climax.

Placing the testicles in someone’s mouth, often humorously compared to dipping a teabag.

Arousing a partner without letting them climax, sometimes extended for hours.

Using heat or cold (ice, candles, metal toys) to heighten sensation. Always check comfort levels first though.

Penis stimulation between breasts, where the penis is thrust between them, or the boobs are bounded around it.

The active, directive role in a sexual or kink encounter. Not always the same as being dominant.

Arousal caused by being stung by the nettle plant, or stinging a partner with the nettle plant.

Sexual arousal from urine. A golden shower is when someone gets arousal from being pee'd on, or peeing on someone.

Inserting objects into the urethra for stimulation. High-risk and requires sterile tools... definitely not a beginner’s game.

Sexual attraction to people in uniforms (nurses, police, military, etc.).

Watching others get it on, and being aroused by it.

A blood-thinning drug that is often prescribed to patients struggling to maintain or achieve a full penile erection.

Sexual activity without kink, fetish, or BDSM elements. Not boring - just straightforward.

A surgical procedure cutting the vas deferens to prevent sperm release. Doesn’t affect erections or libido ;)

A popularized sex move involving simultaneous vaginal and clitoral stimulation.

Traditionally, someone who hasn’t had penetrative sex.

Discredited and abusive practice of checking hymens to determine virginity. Condemned by WHO and human rights bodies.

Arousal from watching others engage in sexual acts. Illegal without consent.

The external female sex organs, including labia, clitoris, and vaginal opening. Not the same as 'vagina', even though some use the term to describe the female reproductive organ as a whole.

Ongoing vulvar pain without clear cause. Medical condition, not a sexual identity, but relevant for sex discourse.

Pouring hot wax on skin for sensation play. Choose body-safe candles with low melting points.

Using whips, crops, or floggers to create sting or thud sensations.

Fetish involving the cervix or uterus. Often fantasy-based; extreme in practice and requires caution.

Couples exchanging partners for sexual activity. Outdated in name; today usually called swinging.

Involuntary orgasm during sleep, often with erotic dreams. Common in adolescence and beyond.

Historically derogatory term for women perceived as promiscuous, though technically referring to prostitutes.

Arousal from the unknown or from strangers. Part fantasy, part thrill of novelty.

Label for sexually explicit content.

Slang for sexual activity within the furry fandom. Online and offline usage varies from playful to explicit.

Erotic or therapeutic massage focusing on the vulva, vagina, and surrounding areas. Emphasis on relaxation and pleasure, not just climax.

Slang for strong sexual longing or appetite.

Slang for a sexually appealing, confident, usually older man.

Fetish involving full-body spandex or lycra suits. Can blend with bondage, anonymity, or sensory play.

Sexual attraction to animals. Non-consensual, illegal, and considered animal abuse.