How’s Your Sex Life?

We believe that if we provide…

Frequency & Timing Duration Hand Stuff Mouth Stuff Locations & Places Positions Roleplay Sharing Photo & Video Dirty Talk & Vocal Sounds Sexting & Phone Sex Music & Sound Orgasms Physical Features Consent & Communication
Health & Wellbeing Games Foreplay BDSM Contraception Clothes Kinks & Fetishes Electronic Toys Aids & Enhancers Penetration Libido Non-Electronic Toys Post-Sex Talking About Sex Porn & Erotica

We will be able to help couples…

  • Discover a kinky desire they were too embarrassed to talk about
  • Get inspired to try something they’d never even thought of
  • Set a boundary they struggled to talk about
  • Become more comfortable and confident talking about sex together

And we think we’re doing a good job!

I found the quiz very helpful with the amount of categories and how much questions per each category. It felt more in depth than other quizzes online due to this. I believe it helped me learn more about my partner whilst also avoiding the embarrassing part of talking about sexual stuff and was fun to answer while doing so/I felt as it was a better way to learn because the embarrassment of one on one conversation can sometimes lead to omitting stuff due to the embarrassment and if it’s awkward. I enjoyed the quiz, and thank you for the follow-up & depth of the quiz!

The time invested was well worth it. I finally understood what my hubby wanted, and he’s also been giving me what I want without me having to ask. It’s freaky but in a good way. We’ve gone from occasional unpassionate sex to what it was like when we first met.

Really good and fun. Was impressed with my report. Would absolutely recommend!

So, try the couples sex quiz!

  • 50 questions in 1 category
  • Online reports
  • 111 possible insights
  • 1,300 questions in 30 categories
  • Downloadable PDF reports
  • 2,600 possible insights

Frequently Asked Questions

Payments & Pricing
  • Can we take the sexual compatibility test multiple times?

    Yes, you can retake the quiz anytime. It's great to revisit your answers as your relationship evolves or new desires emerge. Do note though that to retake your quiz, you will need to create a new account and pay once more (since we are evolving quickly, we expect you'll get even more value next time).

  • Can I get a refund if I'm not happy?

    Of course! We'll ask for feedback so that we can continue to better help couples looking for better sex. As a thank you for your contribution, we'll give you a full refund. Please use the 'Contact Us' page to reach out for a refund.

  • Is there a free version of the couples quiz?

    Yep! We have a free single-category experience so you can see how amazing the report can be! Beyond that, to unlock our other categories and a much more insightful report, you're welcome to upgrade to the full experience.

  • How much does the couples sex quiz cost?

    The pricing changes depending on promotions and expansions. For current pricing, please head to our homepage and scroll down to the packages section.

Questions
  • Can I see what Categories my partner has completed?

    Absolutely! Look out for a little two-person icon next to a Category's name on your dashboard. If you see it, that means your partner has completed that Category. We recommend couples focus on completing the same categories to maximise the value they get from their reports.

  • Can I see what Questions my partner has answered?

    Not at this point in time. We may add it as a feature later down the line, but for now you'll have to suffice with seeing the Categories they have completed.

  • Can I see how my partner has answered a question(s)? / Can I see my partner's answers?

    Definitely not! Otherwise it would ruin the entire premise of this quiz. Your answers will be private, and only you can see how you've answered questions. Once your reports are generated, they'll be inspired by how you've both answered your questions. That doesn't mean that you'll necessarily know how your partner has answered a question though... especially if it's not a match.

  • Will we both see the same questions?

    Sometimes yes, sometimes no. We've designed a quiz that carefully considers the questions you are asked. First of all, some questions apply to certain genitalia types. For example, if you have a penis, we won't ask you if you'd like your clitoris stimulated. We also account for your partner's genitalia. For example, we won't ask you if you'd like to give your partner a blowjob if they don't have a penis. We also take into consideration both partners' genitalia together. For example, we won't ask a couple with a penis and a vagina if they'd like to scissor. But, more importantly, we use 'conditional logic branching' to determine what questions you see. By that we mean, if you've answered one question. certain way, we may show you a follow-up (a bit like Russian dolls). So... no, you're not likely to see ALL the same questions, but you are likely to have some overlap.

  • What kind of questions are in the sexual preferences quiz?

    Our quiz includes questions about sexual preferences, fantasies, turn-ons, limits, duration, frequency, kinks, communication styles, and emotional intimacy — covering every corner of your sex life.

  • Does the quiz include kinky or adventurous topics?

    Yes — but only if you’re open to them. The quiz adapts to your comfort level and only explores kinks or fantasies you’re willing to discuss. Our question writers are fully versed in kink and sexual exploration, so you'll have a great variety of questions.

Report
  • How do I generate my report?

    Once you and your partner are satisfied with the questions you have answered (you may decide to only complete some of the many categories we have for you), you can navigate to you 'Account' in the top right of your screen. There, you will see a button to generate your reports. Note that both of you must have pressed it for them to be generated, but that doesn't mean you need to rush. If one partner presses it, it won't generate the reports. It'll only be once the second presses their button that the reports will be generated. So, take your time, and enjoy the process. Note that both of you need to complete a section for it to appear in your reports. To complete a category, answer all the questions shown to you and press the 'Complete' button at the bottom of your screen.

  • What’s included in the personalised sex report?

    Your report includes compatibility insights, fantasy matches, specific recommendations for play, and conversation-free ways to act on your shared desires. It's also got general education sections to help you understand yourself and your partner better. We are also envisioning adding links to partner sites that offer... erm... 'tools' to help you action what you've read in the report ;)

  • What if my partner and I don’t match on everything?

    That’s normal! The report highlights where you’re aligned and gives gentle suggestions for exploring new experiences together.

  • Do we need to talk about our results afterward?

    Only if you want to. The report is designed to remove awkward conversations by giving clear, actionable steps — your partner will know what to do. That said, we do broach the topic of how you'd like to talk about sex and try our best to provide actionable steps on moving towards more open sex talks with your partner.

  • Can we share our results with each other?

    Yes. You can choose to share your report, or just act on the private suggestions you and your partner will receive. It’s up to you. You'll both receive your reports separately, so it'll be for you to choose how you wish to share (if you decide to).

  • What if our sex drives don’t match?

    The quiz identifies mismatches and gives suggestions tailored to your rhythm, helping you find satisfying middle ground with less tension.

Privacy
  • What data safety measures do you have in place?

    We believe in absolute privacy - which is why we handle data in the way we do. First, and foremost, your data is protected to make sure no random person can access it. Furthermore, after you've completed the Couples Sex Quiz, we will close your account and delete any details we have that can tie your answers to you. Your email, name, and other private details will be erased 30 days after you generate your report. You have 90 days to complete the quiz, after which your account will also be deleted (don't worry - we'll send you email reminders). You can delete your account at any point too.

  • How do you use my data?

    After your account is deleted, we will move certain data into long-term storage to allow us to provide statistics to research institutions. We will keep things such as your age, your answers, and your genitalia, but will erase any details that could link you to that data (name, email, etc). We do this because we believe it is extremely important to use what we do for good. If the data we are able to aggregate lead to improvements in the world of sex health, then we're contributing to a safer, happier, and sexier world! Knowing which age groups have a penchant for a certain type of contraceptive could be extremely useful for researchers looking to improve safe sex. Or, if there seems to be a growing trend in couples opening up their sex lives to multiple partners, it may inspire more research into that trend, which could lead to a more inclusive society somewhere down the line.

  • Is the couples sex quiz private?

    Yes, 100% private. Your answers are confidential and only shared with your partner through a curated report. We never share your data with third parties.

  • Will I be judged for my answers?

    No judgment, ever. The quiz is built to explore sexuality in a safe, open-minded way. It’s a private space to be honest about what excites you.

General
  • What is a couples sex quiz?

    A couples sex quiz is an interactive questionnaire designed to help partners explore sexual desires, boundaries, and preferences. It reveals your sexual compatibility and gives personalised insights to improve intimacy.

  • How can a sex quiz help our relationship?

    Taking a sex quiz for couples can open the door to honest communication, uncover hidden fantasies, and provide guidance on how to fulfil each other’s needs — all without awkward conversations.

  • How long does the couples sex quiz take to complete?

    Currently, it takes about 25 to 40 minutes to complete, depending on how deep you go. You can pause anytime and return later without losing progress. Note that as we add questions and categories, it'll take longer.

  • Do both partners need to take the quiz?

    Yes. For full results, both partners should take the couples intimacy quiz. Each person gets a personalised report, and you receive a report with actionable next steps at the end. You do not need to answer all the categories, though we recommend you both focus on completing the same ones to ensure a rich and valuable report. You can see which categories your partner has completed on the 'Categories' page when you're progressing through the quiz.

  • What makes this the best sex quiz for couples?

    We offer the most comprehensive quiz available — with thousands of questions incoming, more categories than any competitor, and personalised reports that go beyond surface-level compatibility. We well and truly cut out any need for an awkward conversation.

  • Is this sex quiz suitable for married couples?

    Yes! Whether you’re married, dating, in a long-term relationship, or even 'casual', the quiz is designed to strengthen connection, spark desire, and reignite passion.

  • Can a sex quiz really improve our sex life?

    Absolutely. By identifying shared interests and making specific recommendations, the quiz removes guesswork and helps you create more fulfilling, adventurous intimacy.

  • Is this couples quiz LGBTQ+ friendly?

    Yes. Our quiz is inclusive of all orientations, genders, and relationship styles. Every couple deserves a satisfying and connected sex life. Where we have tried our best to keep gender-neutral terms throughout, we hop you can forgive us if there is the odd one here or there. We have tried to focus on the genitalia as opposed to the gender to be as inclusive as possible. And, of course, we make sure the questions you see are relevant for yours and your partner's genitalia.

  • How accurate is this couples sex quiz?

    Extremely. With thousands of data points and dynamic scoring, your results are highly personalized. We go beyond surface-level compatibility into deep sexual understanding.

  • Will the quiz help if we’re in a sexual rut?

    Definitely. It’s designed to spark new ideas, uncover hidden interests, and reignite sexual connection in a low-pressure, fun way.

  • Is the quiz appropriate for shy or private people?

    Yes. It’s designed for those who struggle to bring up desires out loud. You can express your wants privately and still be heard through the report. Let us do the talking (in a kind, carefully considered, and playful way).

  • Is the sex quiz reviews by sex therapists / sexual experts?

    Of course! We've worked hand-in-hand with numerous sexperts (professional sex experts, therapists as well as others) to ensure a thorough, broad, and inclusive experience. We continue to expand and refine with our partners (who are insanely awesome and knowledgeable). But the short answer is: yes! Our couples sex quiz has been reviewed by, and subsequently refined by professional experts in the sexual wellness field.

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