Coffee & Kink: The 5 Best Sex Toys

We’re not shy when it comes to sex toys, though we seldom take the time to dive into which ones are good and which aren’t. While we’re adding questions to our quiz and insights to your reports, our partner Amy is busy learning all about the latest and best pleasure products on the market. Amy (she/her) is a sapphic, polyamorous femme based in the UK. She’s a sex and relationships writer who has spent the last 9 years reviewing sex toys on her blog, Coffee & Kink. To help all you sexy lovers out there find incredible toys to enjoy, and to celebrate our partnership with Amy, we’ve compiled a list of five of her top sex toy picks that you might be able to get for a great price this Black Friday. For all of the below, if you want to read Amy’s thoughts first-hand, just click the heading – it’ll take you straight to her review.

[url=https://coffeeandkink.me/2025/06/26/svibe-snail-curve/][u]SVibe Snail Curve[/u][/url]

I’ve put this one first because there’s something that really made it stand out: it continues to stimulate the external genitals, even when you push it more deeply inside or thrust with it. Whether that outside part is vibrating against your clitoris or your taint (that sensitive spot between your anus and your genitals), the silicone “snail” unfurls to keep it in action. It feels like the necessary innovation the sex toy market deserves, and one I certainly appreciate. That innovation was well received with the experts in the industry too, with S-Vibe winning ‘Best Powered Product’ in the O Awards and receiving a nomination for ‘Sex Toy of the Year’ at the XBIZ Awards. The insertable part can extend to 5.5 inches – a point to be aware of if you prefer larger toys. And make sure to have lube handy to keep the vibrator unwinding against you or your partner smoothly. Want to pick it up? Try this link!

[url=https://coffeeandkink.me/2024/02/05/womanizer-next-review/][u]Womanizer Next[/u][/url]

Clitoral suction stimulators have been around for quite a while now, though when it comes to settings, none quite compare to 2024’s Womanizer Next. Other products have variable speed settings and vibration options, but the Next also has a suction depth setting (with 3 levels to choose from). It also has an ‘Afterglow’ setting which allows you to switch the toy straight to the lowest setting right after orgasm. That overstimulation right after can really ruin the experience, and Womanizer took that on board with this innovative feature. Curious about clitoris-sucking toys? Here's the Next link.

[url=https://coffeeandkink.me/2025/11/03/hot-octopuss-pulse-duo-review/][u]Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo[/u][/url]

Let’s switch things up and throw a penis-hugging toy into the mix. There are relatively few toys on the market for penises compared to vulvas, but Hot Octopuss is leading the way in redressing that balance. Here we’ve got an excellent example of royal toy design – royal because it has a crown emblem on the inside! This oscillating toy was based on medical technologies designed to help those with spinal cord injuries to ejaculate. It sits around the shaft of the penis, with the PulsePlate providing intense and rumbly vibrations that can also be felt through the back of the toy. Ideal not only for the penis-owner, but also for a partner who enjoys grinding. Want this toy for you (or both of you)? Here it is.

[url=https://coffeeandkink.me/2024/11/11/wand-2-we-vibe-wand-review/][u]We-Vibe Wand 2[/u][/url]

There are a lot of vibrators out there, and it’s the intense, rumbly vibrations that truly sets wand vibrators apart. This wand is powerful and ergonomic, with a flexible neck and the kind of deep, penetrating rumbles that sets a new gold standard for cordless toys. We touched on the SVibe’s innovative design above, but how’s this for innovation: a Smart Silence function! When it is switched on, the We-Vibe Wand 2 can detect when it’s in contact with skin and when it isn’t, automatically stopping the vibrations when not in contact and starting again when it is re-applied. Pick up the Wand here.

[url=https://coffeeandkink.me/2020/06/29/doxy-die-cast/][u]Doxy Die Cast[/u][/url]

This top 5 would feel wasted without a traditional mains-powered wand, the crème de la crème of vibrators for many people. For those of you craving next-level intensity, the Doxy Die Cast is possibly the most powerful vibrator out there, hitting a staggering 9000 RMP at full speed. There isn’t really much more that can be said other than this is the perfect toy for the seasoned masturbator, the power-lover, and the intimate couple that likes to play together. Wand vibrators are designed with clitorises in mind, but they feel equally amazing on penises. Treat yourself to the most powerful wand by clicking this link.

Of course, this quick overview barely scratches the surface when it comes to the wonderful world of sex toys. There are countless products out there, and bloggers like Amy and her colleagues at the Alliance of Independent Sex Toy Testers have made it their mission to sort the good from the bad and help you make a more informed buying choice. If it’s a world you want to delve deeper into, check out Amy’s site. She also writes about kink and BDSM, polyamory and non-monogamy, queerness, relationship skills, and much more. Affiliate links appear in this post and send a small commission to Amy at no extra cost to you.